by lsardisco on Sat Sep 20, 2008 5:24 am
The interesting story about George Washington isn't that he chopped down a cherry tree, but rather the relationship he had with his mother. George Washington's mother's tombstone reads: "Mary, the Mother of Washington." Perhaps a more fitting epitaph is "Mary, the Bother of Washington." Mary Ball Washington spent a great deal of her efforts to keep her son at her disposal and was resentful or envious of his success because they kept him along with his money away from home, more specifically her. Evidence would support that Washington was generous with his mother, it was never enough for the woman to the point that she delighted in humiliating him as publicly as possible. In one instance in 1781 Washington received a letter from Bejamin Harrison (speaker of the Virginia House of Delegates) in which he was advised of a movement in the House in response to Mary's cries of poverty. Washington was thus forced to publicly defend his treatment of his mother, reassuring the public that he had made every effort to ensure her comfort. Six years later when Mary suffered with breast cancer he tried to convince her to move in with one of her children, just not him. Eventually he offered her a half-hearted invitation to his Mount Vernon estate, telling her she wouldn't like it because the house was like a tavern filled with strangers and that she'd be required to dress for every day or stay a prisoner in her room. She declined, insisting that she remain independent.
Source: "Treasury of Great American Scandals" by Michael Farquhar, 2003